Blogs
Beberapa hari yg lalu g liat di tv ada orang2 lagi ngomong soal blog. they say blogs itu pencerminan dari narsisme seseorang. coz truthfully, everybody must love themselves. tapi bukan berarti they who write blogs = narsis ( pembelaan diri bgt ya? ). Maybe just because we cant find them who understand some certain part of our mind, thus we write.
Then, g ketemu temen yang bertanya.. "Jo, kenapa ya ada orang yang suka ceritain soal hidupnya di blogs? Hari ini g gini..hari besok g gitu.. Bener2 aneh deh. And, Ive read yours, dan sama anehnya!"
I just smiled, not knowing what to answer. Aneh memang kenapa most of d blogs published itu isinya tentang sehari-hari seseorang. And what weirder is, kita (red,g) pun membacanya! Penasarankah kita sama kehidupan orang2? Atau kita cuma terlalu kepo (sok pedulian)..? Atau seperti kata adek g.."orang Indo itu suka banget ya bengong2 liatin orang" Yah, waktu itu konteks pembicaraan dia sih karena melihat orang2 banyak lagi duduk ngeliatin orang2 banyak juga yang lagi mancing. Know what i mean?
In some of my postings, g agak2 secara tersurat ‘menjelaskan’ soal keadaan g, what ive been through. Dan tidak bisa dipungkiri, its nice to see how some ppl give comments of what i wrote. Mau yg kayak Sasa who always menjatuhkan g dengan kata2nya 
atau Indri, sepupu g yang ternyata baca jg blog g ( masih terngiang waktu lu bilang "Lu demen amat seh nulis blogs? Bosen g liat notification email isinya update blog lu doang" ). Haha..!
Blogs touch, in some way. It could b annoying, or inspiring, or give new perspectives.
October 20th, 2005 at 9:23 pm
Totally agree.
well, initially i was bit bored to keep deletng blog notification from all over the friendster. However, now, i am more selective in deleting. and Jop, not to worry, you are inside the safe list whose blogs is a -must read-
I found it the same like reading magazine….
when ppl read magazine, ppl read other’s ppl life, how they improve to make them happier, it could be a tips. however then, to answer the antagonist part, i have a lot of things to do Too, but i spare times to read your blogs.
It doesnt take one or two blogs for me to get keen on.
You know what’s good in your blogs, you dont just tell “how tired you are in your daily life, or moaning… which most people does”
you wrote… comments, constructive one and stories.
Keep writing, orite.
October 27th, 2005 at 2:17 am
Marriage is a commitment between two persons Jo. It’s about understanding and tolerance, life between 2 persons.
It is not just about love, it is about how you can live with his habit, behaviour and be happy with it.
Did i answer you?